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Toy :

Author: Kristin Savage

Student

A toy is defined by the Petit Robert as « an object, which a child uses to play”. As we grow older, we often forget the connotation of the word toy and remember only this simplistic definition.

Children however, see toys as their friends, which may play even more important roles during their lives. Whether it is a soft blanket, pretty doll or small truck, children associate objects, for a while at least, with sense of safety. Children may sometimes even identify themselves with the toy.

When a family moves from one home to another or from one country to another, a child may become confused. All that they knew growing up suddenly changes: their house and home, their teachers, their friends from their neighbourhood and school will no longer be around them. Occasionally, if the move is the result of their parents’ marriage or divorce, it may even mean that some of the child’s family members may change. In these types of situations the only things that will stay the same are the child’s possessions, the toys they bring with them.

 

It is therefore important when moving with children, to have a little bag for them to put their favourite games, blankies and teddy bears in. They will be less scared and will be less confused with everything happening around them. With their favourite “objects” at their side, a child will find stability even though they are going through big changes.