Fifteen years after stepping off York's convocation stage with a psychology degree in hand, Lilly Singh returned to the University – this time, to receive an honorary degree and inspire the Faculty of Health’s Class of 2025.
A pop culture trailblazer, Singh has evolved from digital creator to film and television star while earning recognition for her creative leadership and advocacy for girls worldwide.
“Lilly’s career encapsulates the values of York University’s mission,” said Faculty of Health Dean David Peters during the Oct. 14 Fall Convocation ceremony. “She uses comedy to break down stereotypes about women, sexuality and more, and is an advocate for gender equity.”
In a heartfelt and candid address, Singh reminded graduands that life rarely follows a straight path – and that’s perfectly okay.
Delivered with her unique brand of humour, personal reflections and encouragement, the award-winning entertainer encouraged graduands to embrace change – and failure – as they move into the next chapter of their lives.
“Let me reassure you,” she said, “having it all figured out is a false narrative. It’s a myth.”
Growth often comes from moments of discomfort and doubt, she said, sharing that during her time at York she was unsure of her future, feeling pressure to follow a traditional path and facing her parents’ expectations for a more conventional career.
Using humour to demonstrate her own challenges, she spoke of her parents' bewilderment when they learned that instead of pursuing grad school, she was going to be an entertainer. "Mom, Dad – it may not have happened in the way you thought, but your daughter is bringing hom a PhD today – also a doctorate in law. I'm basically a doctor and a lawyer."
Uncertainty, rejection and detours are part of the journey, she noted, with each challenge leading to new opportunities and potential for growth.
“Learn that nothing is ever a setback. From the very beginning of my career until now, there is zero evidence that failure sets you back,” she said. “So, if you’re ever in doubt, remember failure is not the universe tormenting you. Failure is the universe guiding you.”
She urged graduands to remain curious and open and accept the role of “student for life,” suggesting education doesn’t end with a diploma – it’s a lifelong pursuit that extends far beyond the classroom.
Challenging graduates to reflect on their habits, Singh encouraged them to question routines and be willing to unlearn patterns that no longer serve their growth.
She also spoke to the power of relationships, emphasizing that achievements are most meaningful when shared.
A passionate advocate for gender equality, Singh called on the graduating class to champion women’s voices and support one another. She reminded the audience that empowerment is a collective effort, and that everyone has a role to play in creating a more equitable world.
Speaking specifically to the women in the audience, she said: “At every turn of your career there will be someone who underestimates you, undervalues you or belittles you. Do it anyway. Make your voice heard. Be ok with being unlikeable.”
To the men, she shared the advice that true masculinity is collaboration and listening. “Learn that a strong woman doesn’t make you weaker,” she said.
Singh’s powerful messages concluded with a reflection on humility and adaptability and the pursuit of self-worth in the school of life.
“The biggest disservice you can do to yourself is believe you have figured it all out and you have nothing more to learn. The truth is, you will graduate over and over again – it just won’t always be in a cap and gown.
“The more you embrace yourself as the most important project in your life – and embrace being a student forever – the better off you will be.”